Nancy Wither

Mrs. Nancy M. (Reale) Wither
Computer consultant
PROSPECT - Mrs. Nancy Marie (Reale) Wither, age 42, of Prospect, died Friday, June 22, 2012, at her home peacefully, with family and friends, after a long illness. She was the wife of Mark Wither.

Nancy was born in Waterbury on Oct. 6, 1969. She worked as a computer consultant for Lightning P.C. in Prospect and was a communicant of St. John of the Cross Church in Middlebury. She was an avid collector of miniature dolls and dollhouses and also enjoyed jet skiing, camping and horseback riding.

Besides her husband, Nancy is survived by her father, Richard Reale and his companion Catherine Archambault of Middlebury; her mother, Raye (Ackley) Reale of Middlebury; a son, Alex Kindle of Prospect; a sister, Susan J. Reale of North Reading, Mass.; two brothers, Russell A. Reale of Temecula, Calif., and Daniel J. Reale of Middlebury; her mother-in-law and father-in-law, Thomas R. and Ruthann Wither Sr. of Maryland; her best friend, Tammy Laudate of Naugatuck; and several aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews.

A funeral Mass will be held on Tuesday, June 26, 2012, at 10 a.m. at St. John of the Cross Church, 530 Middlebury Road, Middlebury. Family and friends are asked to please meet directly at the church. Burial will be in Lake Elise Cemetery in Middlebury. Calling hours will be held on Monday, June 25, 2012, from 5 to 8 p.m. at the Buckmiller Brothers Funeral Home, 26 Waterbury Road, Route 69, Prospect.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Prospect Volunteer Fire Department, P.O. Box 7001, Prospect, CT 06712; or to the Middlebury Volunteer Fire Department, 65 Tucker Hill Road, Middlebury, CT 06762.