WATERBURY-Mr. Gary Michael Gay, Sr., 47, of Zuella Dr., Waterbury, died unexpectedly Tuesday Mar. 17, 2009 at his home. Gary was born in Waterbury, Nov. 15, 1962, a son of Carl Gay and the late Noreen McGrath) Gay and was educated in the local schools, and was a graduate of Leavenworth High School. He was a member of Local # 40, Sheet Metal Workers International, having been employed for over 15 years. Besides his father of Torrington, he leaves a son, Gary M. Gay, Jr. and a daughter Jennifer Gay both of Southington; two brothers David A. Gay of Torrington and Thomas C. Gay of Bridgeport; one sister, Tracy N. Gay of Canton and was predeceased by a brother, Carl Gay. Funeral services will be held on Monday evening Mar. 23, 2009 at 8 pm at the Alderson Funeral Home of Waterbury, 9 Holmes Ave. Friends may call at the funeral home on Monday from 6 pm until the time of the service. In lieu of flowers, friends are asked to make memorial contributions to the Kidney Foundation of Conn., 2139 Silas Deane Hwy., Rocky Hill, 06067 or, the American Diabetes Foundation - Conn Affiliate, Inc., 306 Industrial Park Dr., Suite 105, Middletown, 06457